Don’t Ever Change

I was very little when I learned one of the most important lessons to learn: You have to get hurt. That is the only way you can learn. The strongest people who are out there, the ones who always laugh the loudest with genuine smiles, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Only they decided that they’re not going to let anyone hold them down, that they are going to show the world who’s boss.

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There are many mistakes you will have to make along the way. Let’s start with relationships. The relationships you have and want won’t always work out. In fact, many times, you’ll end up crying on the couch. Believe me, I speak from personal experience. You’ll kill yourself trying to fix the damage that has been done, or spend the rest of you life moping about it. But what you need to understand is that sometimes a relationship is like glass; Sometimes, it’s just better to leave the broken pieces as they are and move on, rather than hurt yourself even more trying to put the pieces back together.

Next, we’re going to move our feelings about ourselves. We all have our flaws. I recently went through something with a friend that made me…well, it made me depressed. She told me that I was, overall, a horrible friend and human being. All because of something mean I said while having a really crappy day. I can’t tell you how many tears I shed when I heard that. I felt like she was right and I was the most terrible person and that I deserved to die. I really hated myself and didn’t have one ounce of self-worth at that point. But then I realized that I was who I was. My friend wasn’t perfect either. She was just as flawed as me. But she was unable to see past mine, and she never managed to see me for who I really was. She saw only the outside of me. Never anything else. Nobody in this universe is perfect. And if someone can’t accept you for who you are, well, that person is an idiot. So don’t beat yourself up about the traits you posse…